Lance

I'm

About Me

I'm a single father of two teenagers and owner of an Internet company. In my spare time, I design and shoot fireworks displays (indoor and outdoor) work on house renovations and explore the world around me. I've been divorced now for 8 years and I'm ready and excited to meet new friends and opportunities to see where it goes.

I like to keep a clean house (but not obsessive about it) and enjoy designing, renovating and budgeting my remodels. I'm not really the bar hopping, party goer, but perfectly fine in social situations. I often find myself in Southern Utah in a slot canyon or remote ridgetop at sunset (with a fire, of course) just pondering and telling completely unbelievable stories with my friends. I can also vegge in front of a Hallmark movie on a lazy weekend.

Lance exploring the desert
  • Age: 52 (But feel like 45 ;) )
  • Height: 6' 2"
  • Religion: Christian (non-LDS)
  • City I live in: Sandy, Ut
  • Children: Age 12 and Age 16
  • Degree: University of Utah: Computer Science and minor in Theater Arts
  • Hair Color: Brown (maybe a little grey)
  • Temperament: Funny, Respectful, Humble, Calm, Great Listener
  • Favorite Locations: Torrey, Utah - Belize - Africa - San Diego (really, just any beach at sunset)

Why I created this Site

I created this site to find that one special person whom I can laugh with, cry with, hike with, camp with, cook with, encourage, finish raising kids with, and above all, grow-up with. I also created it because I have the knowledge and why NOT market myself, I'm totally worth it! ;)

Highlights

Here are a few highlights about me personally that make me who I am.

Time Appropriate

Even though I run a company I am very careful about personal/work separation. Family time is family time.

Romantic

Roses, gifts, surprise breakfast in bed or just cuddling in front of a movie. Although if you laugh at my poetry, we're done.

Spontaneous

I am generally a planner, but on occasion I have been known to be fully spontaneous and go on a trip on a moments notice.

Outdoor Activities

I love exploring and canyoneering in Southern Utah. I crave the road less traveled and really enjoy third-world countries as opposed to a tourist trap. ... Although, I have never been on a cruise and would like to try it sometime.

Board Games

I like board/card games that make you think and work together as a team and feel disdain for any game that makes you draw something that is not a stick figure.

Temperament

I am generally a laid-back even temperament, rarely ever get angry and learn more by listening than speaking. Well chosen, kind words and little judgement is more my style.

What I am Looking For

It is my desire to meet an active, mother (45 - 55) who knows how to exude compassion, show love and respect for the people around her. (but still a little feisty and knows who she is) Why a mother? I believe that as you raise children you gain a level of compassion, love, understanding and self-control that is different than someone who does not have those experiences... but I could be wrong. I dare you to surprise me.

Children: I really like children and will welcome any kids (or grand-kids) you may have. I can sometimes be a bit of a child myself so I'm not worried about us not getting along. I can beat anyone in a Minecraft building competition but if you have a girl, she might kick my butt in ballet. (but, I look really good in a TuTu trying to impress her)

Body Type: Active to moderately active. (This is NOT a looks thing) I like to do hiking and outdoor activities and especially in slot canyons. I'd like my companion to explore some of the same passions that I do, with me and vice-versa.

Appearance: No preconceived preferences. Asian, Hispanic, Blonde hair, black hair, long hair, tall or short. I rarely judge a book by its cover.

Portfolio

A picture speaks a thousand words so imagine the typing I am saving now by uploading a few images. All of these images are within the past 4-years.

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  • Me
  • Things I Love
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The upstairs living space I renovated
With friends among the red rocks at Solace
Inside a narrow slot canyon
Sunset over the water
A large event I organized and produced
Hiking in southern Utah
A remote scenic overlook
Family gathering
Another sunset
A fireworks display in progress
Wiring and loading fireworks before a show
Out in the desert with the side-by-side

Contact

I prefer to be contacted via the dating app that you saw this posting in, BUT I do read messages posted here. I do require a photo so I have at least some idea of who i'm talking with. (If I can't see your face or you have ski-goggles on you probably won't hear back)

Please select a clear photo of yourself